Wednesday, December 14, 2005

The Gift Only You Can Give

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Welcome to all of the new readers to the Communication Mastery Ezine.
We have added more countries to the list of our readers.
If I have missed yours please let me know.

Albania…Antigua And Barbuda…Azerbaijan…Afghanistan…Australia…Austria
Bahamas…Belize…Belgium…Brazil…Burkina Faso…Canada...Croatia…Cyprus
Luxembourg…Malaysia…Mexico…Morocco…Nepal…Netherlands…New Zealand
Nigeria…Norway…Philippines…Portugal…Russian Federation…Romania
Serbia & Montenegro…Singapore…Slovakia…Spain…South Africa
Sweden…Switzerland…Thailand…Togo…Tunisia…Turkey…Ukraine …
United Kingdom(36 counties)…USA (49 states + DC)

The Gift Only You Can Give

This time of year, many people are deciding on what gift to give that special someone. Whether it is a spouse, child, girlfriend boyfriend or just someone who’s been there for you, it can be hard to decide.

Of all the gifts that I have given over the years, two have stood out for people.

    One of them is to write down or type what you see in the other person.

  • Why they make a difference in your life
  • Why they make a difference in other peoples lives
  • The talents and gifts that they have
  • What you appreciate about them and why.

The second gift is the gift of listening. Often we half listen, because we have several things on our mind or believe we know what they are going to say. And people know it. I have heard many people say, "If only someone would just listen to me."
They desire a friendly ear, a sounding board to just hear them.

    To do this:

  • Find a time when you are not rushed
  • Make sure there are no distractions
    • Turn off the TV, radio, cell phone etc.
    • Make sure you are not too tired to listen

  • Face the other person
  • Show signs that you are listening
  • Do not give advice unless asked for
  • Stop the temptation to respond, jot down a note is necessary

You can be amazed at what you can learn by just listening. I have seen people go through this process and say things like, "I never knew". And all it took was taking time to listen. It is also very rewarding watching how happy this can make the other person.

So often we are rushed in life and don't take the time to let others know that they matter to us. It is important, especially at this time of year, to communicate with others how we feel. Sadly, many people are better at pointing out the negative or what is wrong and some people start to think that is the only thing you see in them. Then they go into depression or worse, because they belief that no one cares.

These two gifts can go along way in developing improved communication and stronger relationships.


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The Master Communicator
"Command Attention & Confidence"
Communication Mastery

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