Wednesday, October 26, 2005

What Everybody Should Know... About The History & Development Of Communication

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Have you ever stop to realize just how important communication is to you.

Without being able to connect with other people, it will not only stop you from achieving your goals and desires, it could also threaten your mental and physical health. Yet, many people just leave their communication skills to happenstance and live in a world of misunderstandings, hurt feelings, loss of relationships and business disasters. Quite often they look for outside reasons for challenges or failures. Yet, they can overcome the challenges.

History has shown just how vital communication is in order to grow, succeed and to become more than we are. When you look at the development of humankind and of our brains, you can understand the importance.

In a study on the development of humankind, it was stated that many versions of humans started out, but due to a variety of reasons, they didn’t survive and became extinct. The last two types stated to survive were the Neanderthals and the Homo sapiens. There has been much debate as to whether they were two subsets of one species or two distinct species.

The one thing agreed upon was that other than the difference in the brow bone and chin that the two were more similar than any other versions and that they both had a larger brain than the previous. They could tell that the Neanderthals could think out problems, as they had created tools and buried their dead. Therefore, they couldn’t understand why they became extinct.

A scientist recently discovered one difference between the two. He noticed that when he turned the skull upside down and looked at the base of the brain area that the Neanderthals had a flat base, where as Homo sapiens have a bulge downward.

This effects where are larynx is located. The Neanderthals would be higher up and unable to make many of the sounds that Homo sapiens do. They wouldn’t be able to make the vowel sounds. In other words, they weren’t able to communicate and connect with others on a higher level in the same manner as Homo sapiens. It is believed that this inability to communicate as well as is what eventually lead to their extinction.

This shows that intelligence on its own, is not a guarantee to be able to succeed in life. Your ability to communicate well, will enable you to survive and excel business and life.

However, our communication abilities don’t end there. Much of our primary motor cortex in out brain is related to communication. In other words, a big chuck of our higher advanced brain in the motor cortex, was designed to enable us to communicate more efficiently. This relates to our hands, face tongue and larynx.

When we communicate, our message that we give has more meaning than just the words. Our message is sent in part by body language, tone and emphasis.
Body language includes, use of our hands and facial expressions. Our tongue and larynx give tone, pitch and emphasis. It is these fine details that has enabled us to more clearly define our motives, beliefs, understanding, intentions and desires that we want. It has enabled us to advance in ways that we would never have been able to without our ability to communicate our thoughts, feeling and ideas.

To understand just how much our motor cortex is related to our communication skills go to: Primary Cortex

Remember that the success in your life in proportion to your ability to connect with others. And ponder of the following this week.

"To Master Communication is to Master Wealth"

All the Best!
Maria Boomhower
The Master Communicator
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Sunday, October 23, 2005

Do You Hope That Others Will Read Your Mind?

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Do you or anyone else you know, expect others to read their mind?

This is a common trait especially with family, spouses and close friends.
You lose all control of your life when you do this. You are leaving probably the most important issues and decisions of your life on the hope that the other person will know what you are thinking and feeling. Then when they don't or mis-guess, well, then there is hell to pay.

Often this comes from an underlining feeling of, If you loved me then... (Fill in the dots)

Did you know that this causes you to toss away you power, confidence and the ability to communicate with others?

The challenge with this, is that you are leaving yourself vulnerable to other people's wishes, beliefs and understandings. And most people misunderstand another without having the added burden of being expected to read minds.

I have seen people cry and state that their birthday or other event was ruined because the other person, husband, boyfriend, etc., didn't do what they wanted them to do. When I ask if they told them what they wanted, I get a No, I can't do that they should have just known.

Well if it is that important, then why don't you say so? Why are you leaving your happiness to someone else's guessing?

When you take back your power and life and communicate your desires, you will find yourself being a much happier, confident and self-empowered person.

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Next week, I will show you how a big chunk of your brain is designed for communication. Also, check out the picture.
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All the Best!
Maria Boomhower
The Master Communicator
To sign up for a free report on
"The 7 Secrets to Communication Mastery"
go to: www.falconfreedom.com

P.S. If you like what you're reading, you'll love the book,
"Perceptions"-"Dare to discover what is beyond your filters."
"Our brains have what is known as a RAS system. This system filters out anything that your brain doesn't consider important or dangerous. But what if you thought it was important, then what"?
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Tuesday, October 11, 2005

You Asked

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I have people sending me in questions, so unless it is
personal, I will answer them here. As I have found that
when one person asks a question there are others wanting
the same information.

Question.

Maria,

Could you explain why Quantum Physics and neuroscience
is important to Communication and how it can help me.
Sue


Sure Sue,

You see, when you communicate with someone you have
a goal to have that message get across to another person
or people.

However, quite often our message doesn't reach the other
person as intended. There are many things that get in
the way. It takes more than knowing your nouns, verbs
and adjectives to tell others your message.

It is my desire to help you overcome your barriers to
communication. Therefore, I help to teach and guide you
past them, by showing you what barriers exist.

Through my past training and experience I have come to
understand just how much that our beliefs, attitudes and
experiences can block our messages from getting across.

As well, I have seen how so many people with the
understanding of Quantum Physics, that are now are
having great success in communicating and connecting
with others.

I realize that some people get nervous just hearing the
word Quantum Physics, however, this is not about doing
math equations, its about understanding how it can help
you. And how and why we attract things & events into
our lives

To put it in perspective, you don't need to know all of the
workings and why's of a car, to get you from A to B. You
only need to know how to drive it. They are tools to
assist you. And even to have fun with.

Hope this helps.
Let me know if you need more clairity.

If anyone else has questions that they would like
answered, please feel free to send me an email at
support@falconfreedom.com

and put in the subject line: Q&A.

Also, let me know if I can put in your name or just your
first name only.


To see a list of people who teach Quantum Physics and
Neuroscience for success go to:
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and read, Teachers of Quantum Physics and Neuroscience for success.


All the Best!
Maria Boomhower
The Master Communicator
To sign up for a free report on
"The 7 Secrets to Communication Mastery"
go to: www.falconfreedom.com


P.S. If you like what you're reading, you'll love the book,"Perceptions"-"Dare to discover what is beyond your filters."
It's an interactive manual that takes you through the steps to help you overcome challenges in communicating and connecting with others.
Click Here!

Tuesday, October 04, 2005

Gatekeeping, Your Brains Ultimate Secretary

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Picture a secretary or assistant in your brain. They are the gatekeepers of information. The information they stop is anything that your subconscious self does not accept as true.

We take on beliefs as we are growing up that may not align with our beliefs today, which can stop you from succeeding in life.

Challenges with this can be compounded when you are working with co-workers or clients. You see the other person also has their own gate keeping system.

An example of these beliefs: you may believe that the road to success is easy with the right tools.However, the subconscious is playing a tape from childhood that is saying, "Yeah right, you know that it's a struggle and most people don't make it."

The result is that your gatekeeper will keep back success opportunities from you. It believes that it is doing you a favour. It doesn't want you to prove yourself wrong or create conflict in your mind and risk stress and anxiety that may come from conflicting beliefs. So the results are, that you will not see what is
right in front of you.

There are ways to find out and ways to remove beliefs that don't serve you. First, look around at your life. Is it the one you want? Are there things lacking and missing? If not then the odds are that you have conflicting beliefs.

Start journaling and ask your self. Just what do I believe? And for each answer ask, "Does this serve me?" If the answer is no, then you need to replace it. For some people the changes come fast. For others that have several deeply ingrained beliefs, they may need help from professionals that are trained in replacing old beliefs.

I have personally found that those with an understanding of Quantum Physics, have helped countless people change their lives. As well, there are many counselors and coaches that can help.

In any case, with help you can move forward in life and place what you desire on your RAS’s important list. Then watch the opportunities start to appear.

To see a list of people who teach Quantum Physics and Neuroscience for success go to:
Golden Falcon Recommends

and read, Teachers of Quantum Physics and Neuroscience for success.

All the Best!
Maria Boomhower
The Master Communicator
To sign up for a free report on
"The 7 Secrets to Communication Mastery" go to:
www.falconfreedom.com

P.S. If you like what you're reading, you'll love
the book,
"Perceptions"-"Dare to discover what is beyond your filters."
It's an interactive manual that takes you through the
steps
to help you overcome challenges in communicating and connecting with others.
Click Here!