Friday, June 10, 2005

Multi-Levels of Communication

Who you are and what you do is communicated on so many levels. The words you speak are but a small aspect of communication. And learning to have all your communciaion levels in alignment will give you the ability to take command and attract attention.

Many times people have trouble getting across what they want to tell the other people. There can be many reasons for this and it doesn't always come from not knowing what to say.

There are times when it comes from not being clear about who you are, what you want and the exact message that you want to give.

Quite often with either peer pressure or trying to look good to a person client or business, people will not remain true to who they are and what they are about. These incongruencies come across in what you say and do.

People will notice this and they will sense that something is not quite right about your message. This lowers the trust level and creates barriers.

There was a man who asked Mahatma Gandhi how he was able to speak for hours with out any notes.

He stated that it was because it came from his passion and that he was in alignment with his whole message.

He said that so many people will:
Think one thing,
Say another,
Feel a third
Then act in a forth manner.

They are trying to be too many things to too many people and then they have a hard time keeping it straight in their own mine.

This is why it is important to know and communicate with yourself first and know what it is that you want to state.

And remember the people will pick up your message that you are not in alignment.

P.S. If you like what you're reading in this
newsletter, you'll love the book,
"Perceptions, How to discover what you are really seeing and how it affects your belief system."

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you overcome challenges in communicating and connecting with others.

All the Best!
Maria Boomhower
The Master Communicator
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